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Saturday, 29 March 2014

reason to stay alive


Last week, I had a visit to one of the old age and elderly care homes. It was something that I really wanted to do a long time ago. I was grateful to get such an opportunity. Lots of things I have learnt during my visit besides how we should appreciate and love our parents in the present and future. It was really a heartbreaking to hear some sad stories from some of them and reminded me that I’m not the only one with a sad story that people do not know. Still, we survive all the pains and obstacles in this life without giving up so easily because we do believe that there is something that drives us to stay alive. Some people do not know that their existing can change someone or other’s life. This life is not all about finding the right one, build family and watch your daughter/son grow up and hold your grandchildren. Yet, most of people that I met think that’s the only reason they’re alive. Sorry, but in my opinion it's really selfish if you think your life is all about you and yourself. For me, to stay alive is mean that my presence is useful for human being. It’s totally something worth it to stay alive even your have a very painful life. I maybe do not have superpower or a great skill of fighting to battle with bad people but I try my best everyday to help others even with a small thing. Doing right things is not easy. That’s why we need to keep trying and remind ourselves everyday. Sometimes I need others to remind me too like why I wanted to be a lecturer, why I write all positive things on my blog even I’m not sure if people read it or not, why I should finish my thesis on time or why I need to stop being lazy.  

Nota kaki:
Today is the earth hour day. Same as last year, even it’s a small thing but you really can help by switch off the light for an hour. (Sorry I can’t switch off my fans because it’s too hot in here)

Tuesday, 11 February 2014

an advice a day, keep your stress away.

I don't usually like quotes but quotes from Mary Schmich are just so deep and they are more like advice. I love them so much I want to share it on my blog. Hence, here are her quotes which were taken from Wear Sunscreen.

"Wear sunscreen. 

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now. 

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine. 

Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday. 

Do one thing everyday that scares you. 

Sing. 

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours. 

Floss. 

Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself. 

Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how. 

Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements. 

Stretch. 

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't. 

Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone. 

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's. 

Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own. 

Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room. 

Read the directions, even if you don't follow them. 

Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly. 

Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future. 

Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young. 

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. Travel. 

Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders. 

Respect your elders. 

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out. 

Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth. 

But trust me on the sunscreen.” 

― Mary SchmichWear Sunscreen: A Primer for Real Life