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When I was in Singapore last week, I met a woman from the Philippines and we become friends. She's almost two times my age and still single. Since I am not seeing anyone at this time, we did have a conversation about my favorite topic which is I wrote a lot on this blog, soulmate or the one. Since I don't ever mention it, yes my dear, not everyone has soulmate. To be more accurate, the terms we born with a partner or there is a soulmate for everyone is a bullshit. Not everyone has it. I forget that there are some people dying as a single person, not married and not even has the opportunity to meet his/her the one before he/she dies. Also, there are some people that grow old alone. Well maybe he/she pet a cat or a dog, but still. Or in another case, he/she did get married but then they separate and choose to live with his/her kids until the end of his/her life. So, not everyone has a happy ending in their story and the reality of life will not always as same as what we saw in the movie. I try to be optimistic but sometimes live as a pessimist is a good choice too since we have to be real instead of keep dreaming or waiting for something that is unsure. And yup, I wrote this kind of negative entry because I am sick with some of my friends that keep telling me shit like "you're gonna meet someone someday". I am so over the one. I have to realize that I am no Ted Mosby and my life is not based on himym series (even that series will end next year).