Showing posts with label i was angry when i wrote this. Show all posts
Showing posts with label i was angry when i wrote this. Show all posts

Thursday, 7 March 2013

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Admit it. It is always easier to run away from people that you don’t like and problems that you have than face it. I’ll admit, I do it too sometimes. Oh well, what the hell! Everyone does. So the question here is why are we too afraid to face the truth or to tell someone that “we can’t be more than friend” or just being honest and tell them the truth? Someone told me that running away is probably the best way since you can drag the time and as the time pass by, the person that you are avoiding might forget about the unresolved issue. We all know that things never work that way. It is not easier for that person to just forget about the issue especially when that person is a woman; unless she doesn’t care about it.

So, if you can solve the issue in the first place, why bother to run? Is it because we afraid that the person might get hurts? What's the difference anyway? If you keep the person in the dark for too long, trust me, it hurts more than knowing the truth. That’s why I prefer to face my problems by telling the truth to someone. Okay, maybe the risk here you might lose her/him. (That's explained why I keep losing my friends and some people that I know around me). Some people give another name for a person that like to run away from his/her problems which is a coward. But how about the other person that is the victim of the issue? If that person let he/she ran away for too long, is it means that person is just as same as her/him? It isn’t wrong to run away sometimes but somehow you know that you can’t run away forever. At some point, you have to stop because you will get tired of running. So, maybe it is better for all of us to stop running, avoiding and ignoring the problems or some people, and just be a man and face it. 

Saturday, 16 February 2013

Words!

People said that action speaks louder than words. So, what is the function of the words? To please people? To give some crap advice that even you can't accept it? To give an empty promise? I'm playing with words now. Expressing my emotions of frustrating, mad, sad and hurt to the other forms so that I can share with people that read my blog. Words can be true and can be lie. Sadly, most people choose to give an empty word. They said, they write but they didn't proof it with action. A simple example is a politician. They give all empty promises so that they can win one chair in parliament. But that is an obvious example. How about people around us? Friends and family?

Words can really kill. It's either kill people, friendship, trust, emotions, feeling, and even your relationship with someone you love. That's the power of words. So, in order to avoid it, you have to be extra careful with what you said and what you type in any medium of social networks/ chat. Because once you say it, you can't never take it back. Since today I had been fooled by words from not one, it's like two or three people did to me, so I must say that I don't believe in words easily anymore. I'm not mad, I just laugh to myself cause can be easily fooled by someone that I thought really meant by what he said. Hah. It's just words after all.