Admit it. It is always easier to run away from people that
you don’t like and problems that you have than face it. I’ll admit, I do it too
sometimes. Oh well, what the hell! Everyone does. So the question here is why
are we too afraid to face the truth or to tell someone that “we can’t be more
than friend” or just being honest and tell them the truth? Someone told me that
running away is probably the best way since you can drag the time and as the
time pass by, the person that you are avoiding might forget about the unresolved
issue. We all know that things never work that way. It is not easier for that
person to just forget about the issue especially when that person is a woman; unless
she doesn’t care about it.
So, if you can solve the issue in the first place, why
bother to run? Is it because we afraid that the person might get hurts? What's
the difference anyway? If you keep the person in the dark for too long, trust
me, it hurts more than knowing the truth. That’s why I prefer to face my
problems by telling the truth to someone. Okay, maybe the risk here you might
lose her/him. (That's explained why I keep losing my friends and some people
that I know around me). Some people give another name for a person that like to
run away from his/her problems which is a coward. But how about the other person
that is the victim of the issue? If that person let he/she ran away for too
long, is it means that person is just as same as her/him? It isn’t wrong to run
away sometimes but somehow you know that you can’t run away forever. At some
point, you have to stop because you will get tired of running. So, maybe it is
better for all of us to stop running, avoiding and ignoring the problems or
some people, and just be a man and face it.
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