Love is one big illusion, I should try to forget

A week before 14 Feb, the day where some of us declare as "celebrating love" day. Last year, I made this blog and my forth post after a short introduction was about 'the one'. And I've been talking about 'the one' a lot ever since. Well, I'm done with that part. No more about 'the one' this year. Anyway, last two days some of my friends wished me to get married soon and finally found my Mr. Right (after they wished me HB abbreviately) even all I ever wanted this year is to finish my study. To be honest, I was quite pissed off. Its like people think that getting married is the only purpose of this life and love is all about loving your partner or your kids (after you made some). Well, it's wrong. There are lots of things you can love beside your partner and kids especially if you don't have any. Love your family, your friends, your pet or your PS4. I love my 3ds more than some of my friends. At least my 3ds never hurt me back or lying to me or used me like most of so called friends that finally left me without reasons did. The beautiful thing about life is you can find love in so many different ways. You can fall in love with foods, good songs, beautiful place like Melbourne, or some other things. Because in my opinion. falling in love with other things beside human being or living things is the best since it will not left you with heart broken. Or probably the best thing to do ever is to love your God. 

It does not matter what you love or love to do. The only thing matter is what you love provided you with happiness. What is the point of loving one living thing but in the end you're not happy and hurts a lot while the other side is taking your love as a granted. It's maybe sounds selfish but just remember that sometimes you have to put yourself in front of anything else to be happy. Same thing as your job. If you don't love your job, just quite and find another thing to do with your life that can bring you happiness. It's not that easy especially that job offer you a huge paycheck but in this case, money can't buy happiness. At least I did this once.