this zone level is more than 9000

Some people said that guys have been put in friend zone more than girls. If that's true, then I’m a guy. I can list down all the guys that have put me in the friend zone and I’m pretty sure the list is longer than girls that Ted Mosby has dated list. Okay, maybe not. Well, my point is being put in the friend zone is not fun at all. I admit that I have put some guys in the friend zone too. If this is karma for me, then I accept it. But that is not the story here. Recently, a guy had put me in the friend zone and that wasn’t the worst part. The worst part was he still treat me nicely and call me dear every time he text me. It’s like playing with someone’s feelings, am I right? If I can describe this situation with something else, it will be like you fall into deep hell and then get burned with the highest degree.

Being put in the friend zone makes me wonder and the first question of course why. Then, I realize why I do the same to some guys. The answer is feelings is not something that you can force. But at least if you want to put someone in the friend zone, make sure that you treat the person like friend after that. Don’t be a jerk by calling her/him with something that you’re not supposed to especially you just get to know that person and for me, it’s only okay if that person has no feeling to you AT ALL.