Sometimes
when I’m out of idea what to write on here, I do a survey. So today I caught a
guy online and chatting with him until I get an idea to write this entry. Now,
let’s talk about single men’s opinion on why they’re still single beside the “I’m
still waiting for the one” and “I’m not ready” excuses. One of the famous
reasons is it’s hard to find a woman that is not a gold digger. As a
woman, I have to admit that reason is valid. But label all women as a gold digger is so wrong in any level. Like me, I don’t care how much money
my future bf or husband earns as long as he earns enough money to support our
family in the future and will not asking for my salary. Maybe we will share to pay
the house loan and utility bills but for the rest especially for groceries, it
is his responsibility to give me money even I earn more than him. So, this is my
point of view. For other women out there, maybe they have their own point or
thought. But most of my friends even my eldest sister have the same thought
with me.
Basically, we’re the type of women that’s not looking at money as it
is everything in this world but we need money to survive though, and most
importantly to have a better life and live in comfort. Just ask anyone in this
world, no one wants to live or born poor. Born as poor is not an option but we
can change our fate and future. Maybe some woman chooses to be a freaking gold digger just to change her fate. Who knows?
Nota
kaki:
I
wish those guys that label all women as gold digger go and watch ‘Pisau Cukur’
movie. One of my favorite movie and in that movie it’s clearly stated how much a
woman needs to sacrifice and struggle for her children’s future because she
didn't want her children to have a hard life like she had. Last but not least,
some woman like me maybe would like to know how much my future husband earns just
for the sake to be secure. You know guys, women full with insecurities.
Therefore, don’t be so quick and judge us as gold digger.
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